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Stansmith
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-I'm aware of how everything I do reflects on me.
-I'm aware of what 'people' are doing and compare myself against that.
-I'm aware of the general consensus on practically everything. If I'm just getting into a new genre of music or film, I follow the online 'recommended' lists religiously and feel weird picking out artists/films for myself from the get-go.
-I want to be seen as "the guy who __________". There's something strangely satisfying about being known as a 'writer' or a 'photographer', or simply having a 'thing'.
-I acknowledge acquaintances that I've barely talked to when I see them.
-When I'm in a group of 'friends' and someone I'm romantically interested in, I usually give everyone equal attention before focusing on her. If it's a third-wheel situation with an actual friend, I'll probably acknowledge the other person consistently as long as they're still around. If the third person's just a tag-along, or if I'm in a group of more than 3 people, I'll probably tune them out completely.
-I don't have public outbursts. I might withdraw from a situation or social 'obligation' if I'm upset, but I won't make an obvious scene out of it.
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-When I enter a new social environment, I don't really strike up conversation with anyone unless I find them sexually attractive. I'm not even sure how I make friends. Most people don't interest me at first-glance.
-I need to feel passionate about whatever I'm doing.
-I desire a deep, valuable connection with others.
-I find networking, the party atmosphere, and social media exhausting and unfulfilling.
-I'm obsessive with all of my interests.
-I'd rather have an SO than friends.
Sp
-I get weekly haircuts (I'm black) and I'm pretty much always cleanly shaven.
-I work out sometimes.
-I brush my teeth and shower twice a day.
-I never forget to eat something.
-I'm aware of how everything I do reflects on me.
-I'm aware of what 'people' are doing and compare myself against that.
-I'm aware of the general consensus on practically everything. If I'm just getting into a new genre of music or film, I follow the online 'recommended' lists religiously and feel weird picking out artists/films for myself from the get-go.
-I want to be seen as "the guy who __________". There's something strangely satisfying about being known as a 'writer' or a 'photographer', or simply having a 'thing'.
-I acknowledge acquaintances that I've barely talked to when I see them.
-When I'm in a group of 'friends' and someone I'm romantically interested in, I usually give everyone equal attention before focusing on her. If it's a third-wheel situation with an actual friend, I'll probably acknowledge the other person consistently as long as they're still around. If the third person's just a tag-along, or if I'm in a group of more than 3 people, I'll probably tune them out completely.
-I don't have public outbursts. I might withdraw from a situation or social 'obligation' if I'm upset, but I won't make an obvious scene out of it.
Sx
-When I enter a new social environment, I don't really strike up conversation with anyone unless I find them sexually attractive. I'm not even sure how I make friends. Most people don't interest me at first-glance.
-I need to feel passionate about whatever I'm doing.
-I desire a deep, valuable connection with others.
-I find networking, the party atmosphere, and social media exhausting and unfulfilling.
-I'm obsessive with all of my interests.
-I'd rather have an SO than friends.
Sp
-I get weekly haircuts (I'm black) and I'm pretty much always cleanly shaven.
-I work out sometimes.
-I brush my teeth and shower twice a day.
-I never forget to eat something.
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