Brendan
Guerilla Urbanist
- Joined
- Apr 23, 2007
- Messages
- 911
- MBTI Type
- ENFJ
So, ENFJ's, describe your sense of humor when it comes to banter between you and your friends.
Example:
Situation: Friends and I are playing Super Smash Bros. Brawl for Wii, and I'm winning. I've just knocked out a friend's character.
Friend: DAMNIT why do I keep falling!
Me: Why don't you stop falling? LOL
It's not meant to be mean, it's meant to make my friend laugh at himself... I'm still in the process of feeling out exactly where that line is though lol. I've got to be careful because it can come across as incredibly venomous, and I think this is something of a reciprocal function to that whole ENFJ knowing-exactly-what-to-say-to-make-people-feel-good ability. It's also occurred to me that this may just be a guy thing.
So how do you, ENFJ, engage in playful banter? How is this banter received by its recipient and how does it come across to bystanders (potential casualties ) ? How do other ENFJ's whom you know engage in playful banter?
Example:
Situation: Friends and I are playing Super Smash Bros. Brawl for Wii, and I'm winning. I've just knocked out a friend's character.
Friend: DAMNIT why do I keep falling!
Me: Why don't you stop falling? LOL
It's not meant to be mean, it's meant to make my friend laugh at himself... I'm still in the process of feeling out exactly where that line is though lol. I've got to be careful because it can come across as incredibly venomous, and I think this is something of a reciprocal function to that whole ENFJ knowing-exactly-what-to-say-to-make-people-feel-good ability. It's also occurred to me that this may just be a guy thing.
So how do you, ENFJ, engage in playful banter? How is this banter received by its recipient and how does it come across to bystanders (potential casualties ) ? How do other ENFJ's whom you know engage in playful banter?