^ yeah, right? some girls seem to just hang out with guys and it is (i am assuming) all casual, but for me, i seem to be stuck between being one of them and one of the women
it could be partially me, that i am ultra sensitive to energy/vibes and women are perhaps more reserved themselves, i also sense that women are A LOT more judgmental than men, they sort of check you out
also, i feel like with women, you have to smooch their asses a bit, like ask about their family or whatever, and i just don't do that naturally, it's like you need to actively establish a bond, gossip or something, whereas men warm up to you with jokes/humor of any kind
i have met a couple of women who just give me evil stares - for no freakin reason - like if i get their name wrong or something - idk - so weird.