It was posted for what, a couple of hours with a very mixed demographic of types. Which type would feel targeted?
you've posted parts of these before but sure - give it as much time and exposure as you'd need. here's a question: if they actually do so...
if they hear about your pain and their first thought is how it reflects on them - that THEY are under attack...
would they be correct? would it be a sane reasonable interpretation on their part? did you just share it to make INTJs/ISTPs/INFPs/INTPs/etc feel bad about themselves? are you "going after" them? NO, ofcourse not. whatever your reasons would be, they are not probably going to revolve around THEM, fuck even if you were reacting to them the motivational structure that produced that decision was not one functioning in a universe in which they are the center of, and it would take one hell of a twisted bent to think otherwise.
I owned my behavior in this thread, but do you own yours? I called myself a bitch? What are you?
after two years? i believe your original reaction was that you were "one of the kindest people your friends have ever known!"? i've being openly calling myself an asshole from day 1 of the argument.
and let me guess at another probable difference:
would you like to explain how are you being a bitch? my bet would be that you meant bitch to say that you are a BAMF. in contrast, i am fully aware that from the perspective of anyone of you not having the same invested interests as me, a lot of those interactions would be pain for someone else's gain. as in - i genuinely perceive myself to be ethically in the wrong, hurting others for the benefit of myself and - if i am really lucky - then people i care about - which as far as anyone here is concerned, is a worth for me and for me only. it's my choice to deprioritize ethics and considering it a luxury, which means i am really being an asshole. do i feel bad about it? fuck yes. does it make me feel great about myself? not in particular. but thats just guilt & shame - it's not remorse. an apology isn't worth much if i don't at the very least plan to stop doing what i am apologizing for.
You have demanded INFJs on this site apologize to just "prove an INFJ can".
no, i asked if they had cases in which they felt remorse from their life.
funny story: at the time, i totally thought that theoretical framework was a losing bet.
i expected to be proven wrong in like 2-3 posts tops, at the very least within a day.
instead - two INFJs reacted to the thought that they might have said something offensive unintentionally by throwing tantrums accusing who they offended and withdrawing. i could barely believe it - i throw a theoretical dart at the most preposterous of directions and that's the one that started making accurate predictions.
so [MENTION=14857]fia[/MENTION] - don't say you aren't able to change my mind - you already have.
so what is my motivation to "look good".
hmm? the pattern is twisting reality to view yourself in a way that you want to see yourself - in a way that makes you feel good about yourself - and blocking anything that would contrast it. it does not assume that you'd be doing it for people or a deity.
Edit: I should also address your comment asking "are those other types giving self-righteous justification for their right to give nervous breakdowns". You hear me saying that? In the thread about cheating, did I give a self-righteous justification for INFJs cheating? If a person talks shit about any of my friends I will push back whether it is INFJ, polish, Irish, musicians, or whatever if done unjustly. I would like to think you would defend your friends as well. It's a rather normal thing for people to do.
i believe you were more inclined to the 3rd item on that list, but either way - you aren't defending your friends in a fucking fist fight, your defending your friends innocence and moral high ground, so when you are defending them you are also defending their actions. more importantly: if you want to judge my reaction to you and your friends then it's going to have to account for actions by your friends as well, not just you.
oh and:
I just wish you had enough empathy to start to comprehend what my reactions have been.
right back at you. seriously - you have no fucking clue. though maybe its just more disappointing because you like to try to maintain the self image that you would.