violet_crown
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Do INTJ really understand people better? Usually this sort of interpersonal insight is considered one of our weaknesses. Then again, perhaps you are just saying that ENTJ is even worse.
Actually, I think that INTJs understand people just fine when they care to. My observation on where you guys fall down is not the insight, but the ritual. Fi seems to work in you guys such that when you want to express something to someone else, you can be kind of insistent on the right to express not just what you feel, but conveying it in a way that feels right to you personally. Sometimes this need for it to "feel right" for the INTJ will trump the needs/feels/preferences of the other party. It's like "HEY, I'M FEELING THIS FEELING RIGHT NOW", and the other party just has to figure out what to do with it.