The ones I know are typically toilet-papering trees and sitting outside people's houses in vans, giggling uproariously.
People here seem to suggest an ENTP women, or even a NT women in general is exactly what they want but like BlahBlahNounBlah suggested ENTP women usually defy the feminine stereotypes, maybe people suggest that's what they want but my reality suggests very few men can actually handle it let alone like it, most of the men I've ended up with have loved my independence, bluntness and lack of shame and then turned around and expected me to be more ISFJ like.
I have a feeling that one thing that might repel people about NTPs in general is that they've likely had so many relationship failures that it's made them paranoid and cynical enough that no one wants to deal with someone who has all their past issues and hangups. So in other words, they get off to a bad start due to their unconventionality, and by the time they find people who can understand them, they're too messed up from trying to read subtle signs and compensate for their failures that they start seeing things that aren't even there, and can't genuinely trust or relate to anyone.
Of course, I don't really see why so many people dislike them, but then I'm not even attracted to women, so... who am I to judge, I guess? Maybe there's something inherent about the psychological nature of being attracted to women that makes ENTPs seem undesirable to such people.
In the end I said him:
"Look, I have a crush on you. You can do whatever you want with it - turn me down now, accept me, but I just want you to know."
I'm not disliked, and I don't repel people (i'm referring to real life ... not this forum).
People are actually drawn to me, repeatedly, over and over and over. I just don't know that they understand the difference between what they're seeking and what they actually want.
I don't decide against anyone over something vague like that if I'm interested. When it comes to relationships I will let my emotions direct what I do, if I'm interested then I'll pursue it up until my head can make sense of things and see the discrepancies. If someone is interested in who they think I could be and that image is different to who I am then my interest will be lost pretty damn quick.
Kinda but my perception isn't wrong, I know this because without being fake I don't show my real self if I don't feel right about my relationship with another person, I'll test the waters and reveal little things to gauge reactions, if they're not well met then I'll withdraw. I'm not deciding what the other person wants I'm seeing that I can't be myself around them as that's disapproved of and if I can't be myself then they can't be after who I actually am even if they say they are.
That's ENFPs.
Does not compute.
I might seem naive to an observer, only because I disregard details that many people tend to take very seriously. But the important part is this is a conscious decision. It's not based on ignorance, blind trust, or an assumption that people are fundamentally good. I don't trust anyone until they earn it, and I don't expect anyone to trust me until I do the same.
Kinda but my perception isn't wrong, I know this because without being fake I don't show my real self if I don't feel right about my relationship with another person, I'll test the waters and reveal little things to gauge reactions, if they're not well met then I'll withdraw. I'm not deciding what the other person wants I'm seeing that I can't be myself around them as that's disapproved of and if I can't be myself then they can't be after who I actually am even if they say they are.
Sounds perfect. If the giggling isn't obnoxious.
I've never repelled anyone and I doubt many people dislike me or find me undesirable. I have had no relationship failures. I end things when they are not good. A failure would be to stay.
It is true that I am not palatable to all men, but I doubt any woman is. If you mean that NF men find me paranoid and cynical or whatever, I will totally agree with you, even though I am none of those things.
You actually seem like a self-confident optimist to me. But you aren't a typical ENTP.
ENTPs are optimists. They tend to regard problems as personal challenges, and have little patience with those they consider wrong or unintelligent. However, they are often extremely genial and quite charming, when not being harassed by life in general.
Good at analysis, especially functional analysis, ENTPs have a tolerance for, and enjoyment of the complex. Enthusiastic, ENTPs are apt to express interest in everything, and thus unwittingly inspire others who find themselves caught up in an ENTP idea. The ENTP is the most reluctant of all types to do things in a traditional manner.
How are confidence and optimism atypical for ENTPs?
Oops. I guess because I was assuming they were just goofier, more random, impulsive and open INTPs.
Let's try to answer the question...
Who wants ENTP women? ESTJ men, apparently :-D
Is there anyone who actively seeks ENTP women, or do you just somehow end up stuck with us by accident?
I feel like ENTP men have the advantage because they're better at fitting the male stereotype. Unfortunately, I'm not a lesbian, and I can't grow a penis.
Do any men sincerely get a boner for female ENTPs? Men who aren't constantly crying, I mean.
Do any men sincerely get a boner for female ENTPs? Men who aren't constantly crying, I mean.