BalanceFind
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And if you ask them to clearly explain their thoughts and tell you what the hell is wrong, they can't (or won't) do it, and usually answer with plain insults.
It depends. Everyone is an individual and has different levels and types of communication. But generally, being able to speak up directly more timely, in a calm, rational, non-self-absorbed way will go a long way. Even just part of the time. For me, a calm, verbal conversation that is a combo of facts, logic, and feelings combined is preferred. Even direct written communication is good.
It's a give and take on both sides in regards to communication, what, when, how, style. Problems occur when communication is too one sided in one person'a preferred way only.
In regards to your other post, nobody ever wins a fight of any kind in my opinion.