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I don't see this is as a problem. People gotta do tests and see the data.I'm sorry guys. Immediately after starting this thread, I regretted it. I really don't meant to spread hate or trying to raise one's self by putting another down. I'm sorry, I know I started it, but I'm officially no longer endorsing it. Share what you will but I wish you won't. I apologize.
I'm INFJ and my for sure least compatible type is ISTP.
No hate-intended- (plus I'm sure they feel the same way) Something about the "Whaddup? kind of agressive way they tend to communicate grates on me and I'm sure my more indignant emotionality does so for them too.
So, I know it's a negative topic but I'm just interested- What's your least compatible type? And, if your willing to go there, why?
I am not sure on types anymore, but I don't like idealists much, or people who are pathologically altruistic. Everytime I see these kinds of people, I feel they will waste their lives and be hurt, possibly die young. Not that it is wrong to do what you want/believe in. I just don't like seeing people get beat up by life, and I know its going to happen to them. I believe it is inefficient as well as foolish, if they have lept in without proper research or understanding of reality and human nature. So my irritaition is boundless because I am incapable of preventing it, because explaining it doesn't stop them.
(I just realized this is INFJ thread, whoops)
Lol
I'm actually interested in what you have to say. Would you explain more ?
It would be difficult for me to elaborate on. As it goes with my own strict mindset on self-preservation, but not selfish self preservation if that makes sense. Altruism has its place in the world, don't get me wrong. But I believe in everything in moderation, and it is one of those things.
Some people are so bent on helping everyone else, they trample on the people around them that also need their help. They dont realize they can make much more of a difference at home, and only when home is acceptable should they try helping those outside. Because resources are limited. And due to those limitations, you cannot help everyone. I hear them say they will help everyone, but anyone who knows that there are billions of people who need help, and only a few million that can provide it. Will quickly realize that it is resource impossible. In their attempts to help, they open themselves up to righteous sacrafice, suicidal altruism. Without realizing that them doing so, takes others down with them. It weakens the very ability to give help to begin with. Eventually, there will be no one else to give help. Because they have compromised the system that has created the help to begin with. They will have given everything, and have gotten nothing. They forget that its okay to be a little selfish, that its okay to say no. They will destroy themselves, and no one will even remember their sacrifice. In fact, people wouldnt care. Some will even despise your help. I ask them, is it really worth it?
I find that to be sad.
*looks back at how many people fit the profile*
*sigh*
Look, these people are fucked in the head, but it can't be helped. Most of them do that with conviction. Add to your knowledge, the pure idealistic souls do that unconditionally for the love of doing it. They actually don't wait for you or I to recognize it, but they love it when we do. They also don't mind giving everything when they, hum, feel it's worth it. Just, don't try to make sense of it in your head, or else, you will end up in the asylum.
I'm a pragmatically generous person, and I'm drawn to these suicidally generous freaks. It's disturbing.
INxJ. I don't understand how anyone could be attracted to them to be honest.