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If someone were to all of sudden express their "true feelings" about me when they were angry, meaning they were holding it in and not being truthful with me, it would feel like a complete slap in the face. I've had this done to me before, and the relationships were never the same again. I try to be honest as much as possible, especially with friends, and I expect the same. I'm leery of people who behave as if they have no issues with you, when in fact they have many which they haven't come forward with.
When I use Fi, I cant speak during moments of pain. Fi doesnt really have words. So sometimes I will let a lot go and forgive without ever actually mentioning it was an issue-unless you really make me angry. Perhaps this was what you encountered?
nothing their eyes say everything it's scary
Is this tertiary Ti?
Sorry to side track this thread a little but I recently had an encounter where an INFJ hurt me very much. I really, really like her as she is the ultimate in Fe love, and she didnt mean to hurt me, but I was still very hurt. She had no idea that she would hurt me via her actions. I left the scene and said nothing. I feel like keeping a distance or avoiding her now for awhile, maybe a few weeks, as just seeing her makes me hurt a bit and I need time to let the pain go away.
I am afraid this will result in confusion on her end if she misunderstands my actions via an Fe/Fi translation error and thinks I hate her or something. Do you guys have advice?