pinkgraffiti
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- ENFP
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OK, let's play.
ENFP: great fun but can get tiring after a while. we are two balls of Ne, whenever Im out with ENFP friends we bounce ideas for hours but then I go home and I feel like my brain is going to burst and I need some "me" time to process
ENFJ: like friends, but the relationship can be conflictual. I've had conflict with 2-3 different ENFJs, all enneagram 8 or 2's in stress and the conflict was due to their tendency to be authoritarian. I don't like being bossed around or feeling like Im losing my freedom. The good thing is even with conflict they believe in the relationship, and since I also have a lot of hope in relationships in general, this helps maintain the relationship
INFJ: get along very well with this type. i usually show my most idealistic side with INFJs. we can talk for hours about life and the universe. and they are sweet and very good at giving emotional advice.
INFP: my buddies. I love INFPs, we share Fi and I feel like I can be myself with them. The downside is that they have a sense of sarcasm/darkness that I don't share, and sometimes I have to get away because they can demand too much of me emotionally.
ENTP: superficially "mates" but if I scratch a bit under the surface they can be very irritating. it's always their kind of humor, based on making fun of everyone (I guess it's the combination of Ne-Fe). I'm often bored at their jokes or find them insensitive. My humor is different, I make fun WITH people, often using myself as "bate", not them, and I enjoy nonsense humor. But Im sensitive to other people's feelings. I also don't appreciate their issues with Fi (all ENTPs I've ever know hate Fi or like to make fun of it)
INTP: I like their out-of-the-box intelligence and lack of interest in being anal/organised. I like to make fun of them for their lack of social capacities. I like this type and they usually can see through the "ENFP façade" and understand that I'm intelligent, which I appreciate.
ENTJ: very good. I love their Te and they love my Ne. they make me feel more secure in myself, and I love that they go straight to the point, no bullshit needed. and they genuinely listen to me and I feel they respect me intellectually. it's perfect. but i still prefer to go home to my INFP, who understands and validates me emotionally in a way an ENTJ is just not able to.
INTJ: this type... I can totally follow their logic, but they annoy me in that they usually think they are smarter than anyone else. Also, I can follow their logic but they bore me fast. I don't see the universe as a global set of rules and logic and even if it is, I don't care. I care about people and things that can't be measured. Of course they don't understand this and don't care. I think they are usually more interested in me than I am in them. However, I've met a few with developed Fi and with those the relationship can be much more satisfying.
ESFP: Yeah! I have loads of fun with them. They are clearly more social than I am, I am somewhat more introverted as well. But I love ESFPs and it's great to be around them.
ESTPs: I dont understand what makes them tick and they intimidate me, I have a secret desire that they will accept me because they are somehow cooler than I am. With all the Se and stuff.
ISFP: I like ISFPs It's fun to be with them, except when I try to use Ne and they start looking at me like I'm crazy But if I just limit the abstraction and focus on Fi or on having fun, it can be a good relationship.
ISTP: Like ESTPs-> I'm not sure if I know anyone and they are aliens to me.
ISTJ: OMFG. They make me feel calm but. They bore me. They never understand my jokes and every story has to follow A->B->C logic otherwise they don't get it. They also are not very good at trying new things and being partners in my adventures. It works but only for like 1 min. Sorry guys. I like your sense of humor though.
ESFJ: I knew one and it was very difficult to get along with her. Seemed totally fake, only thought about "the group" and not about how each person felt. She seemed like she could change personality to suit the group. I didn't trust her and couldn't find common ground.
ISFJ: They bore me. I have to be careful and attentive to their needs so that I can have a good relationship with them.
ESTJ: I don't know if I know any.
PS: I would LOVE to discuss these ideas with other ENFPs or with what each of the types I mentioned thinks about ENFPs, if it's similar or not
ENFP: great fun but can get tiring after a while. we are two balls of Ne, whenever Im out with ENFP friends we bounce ideas for hours but then I go home and I feel like my brain is going to burst and I need some "me" time to process
ENFJ: like friends, but the relationship can be conflictual. I've had conflict with 2-3 different ENFJs, all enneagram 8 or 2's in stress and the conflict was due to their tendency to be authoritarian. I don't like being bossed around or feeling like Im losing my freedom. The good thing is even with conflict they believe in the relationship, and since I also have a lot of hope in relationships in general, this helps maintain the relationship
INFJ: get along very well with this type. i usually show my most idealistic side with INFJs. we can talk for hours about life and the universe. and they are sweet and very good at giving emotional advice.
INFP: my buddies. I love INFPs, we share Fi and I feel like I can be myself with them. The downside is that they have a sense of sarcasm/darkness that I don't share, and sometimes I have to get away because they can demand too much of me emotionally.
ENTP: superficially "mates" but if I scratch a bit under the surface they can be very irritating. it's always their kind of humor, based on making fun of everyone (I guess it's the combination of Ne-Fe). I'm often bored at their jokes or find them insensitive. My humor is different, I make fun WITH people, often using myself as "bate", not them, and I enjoy nonsense humor. But Im sensitive to other people's feelings. I also don't appreciate their issues with Fi (all ENTPs I've ever know hate Fi or like to make fun of it)
INTP: I like their out-of-the-box intelligence and lack of interest in being anal/organised. I like to make fun of them for their lack of social capacities. I like this type and they usually can see through the "ENFP façade" and understand that I'm intelligent, which I appreciate.
ENTJ: very good. I love their Te and they love my Ne. they make me feel more secure in myself, and I love that they go straight to the point, no bullshit needed. and they genuinely listen to me and I feel they respect me intellectually. it's perfect. but i still prefer to go home to my INFP, who understands and validates me emotionally in a way an ENTJ is just not able to.
INTJ: this type... I can totally follow their logic, but they annoy me in that they usually think they are smarter than anyone else. Also, I can follow their logic but they bore me fast. I don't see the universe as a global set of rules and logic and even if it is, I don't care. I care about people and things that can't be measured. Of course they don't understand this and don't care. I think they are usually more interested in me than I am in them. However, I've met a few with developed Fi and with those the relationship can be much more satisfying.
ESFP: Yeah! I have loads of fun with them. They are clearly more social than I am, I am somewhat more introverted as well. But I love ESFPs and it's great to be around them.
ESTPs: I dont understand what makes them tick and they intimidate me, I have a secret desire that they will accept me because they are somehow cooler than I am. With all the Se and stuff.
ISFP: I like ISFPs It's fun to be with them, except when I try to use Ne and they start looking at me like I'm crazy But if I just limit the abstraction and focus on Fi or on having fun, it can be a good relationship.
ISTP: Like ESTPs-> I'm not sure if I know anyone and they are aliens to me.
ISTJ: OMFG. They make me feel calm but. They bore me. They never understand my jokes and every story has to follow A->B->C logic otherwise they don't get it. They also are not very good at trying new things and being partners in my adventures. It works but only for like 1 min. Sorry guys. I like your sense of humor though.
ESFJ: I knew one and it was very difficult to get along with her. Seemed totally fake, only thought about "the group" and not about how each person felt. She seemed like she could change personality to suit the group. I didn't trust her and couldn't find common ground.
ISFJ: They bore me. I have to be careful and attentive to their needs so that I can have a good relationship with them.
ESTJ: I don't know if I know any.
PS: I would LOVE to discuss these ideas with other ENFPs or with what each of the types I mentioned thinks about ENFPs, if it's similar or not