Fluffywolf
Nips away your dignity
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"No."
....and "Just, no." to any follow up question.
....and "Just, no." to any follow up question.
Interesting, could you explain?
I feel like the closest answer has to do with the chaos I see in the universe. I also believe in being kind to everyone I meet and preserving their freedoms. Truly, an ideal society would be one where everyone had maximum freedom to pursue happiness and prosperity?
Then the next best thing would be ultimate freedom so long as it does not interfere with others' freedom.I am convinced about the same! Absolute freedom! But is it really possible? When one has an absolute freedom, it means he has the freedom to litimitate someone else's freedom, so than the freedom is limited after all...I wish there would be a possibility how to make an absolute freedom real, but it feels like it does not match the reality we live in, cause the reality is limiting itself...
it should have been 43
Why?
If by the word "everything," you mean "an ideal society"
Then it's easy.
Everyone needs to take responsibility for everything that happens to them.
Next?
Do you?
I don't think this is a question that can be answered with a simple "yes" or "no."
So I'll give an example.
If I just had a fight with someone I knew and I'm feeling angry or upset, I have to go be alone for a while. And I ask myself why I'm upset. Then the next thing I ask myself is why I am attracting this person into my life. In this case, I would be taking responsibility for the situation, because I know I am the one attacting that situation/person in my life, so yes.
It's a reflective response though. The next time I am around that person, I have a more proactive way to take responsibility when I'm around them.
I think if ppl just tried about 10% more to take responsibility for thier life, then it would improve. We don't have to strive for perfect. It's a process. Problem is people don't like to admit they're wrong. Also they don't believe they are the one creating thier own reality by attracting it to themselves.
Be true
The best answer I have come up with so far is compassion.
One way people learn, is by watching others.
Instead of being bombarded with constant reminders of which brand of coffee (insert any advertisement here) to buy, people should be reminded to take responsibility for themselves and not feel shame in the process.
"And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same"