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I totally fail the Fe test!!
I have no Fe, thus no sense of shame and will talk quite openly about things others will not-if someone asks or expresses an interest.
I fail the "how was your weekend/" question quite often. "mediocre", " it sucked", "beautiful with waves of happiness" when "great, how was yours" is the correct answer.
I have to very specifically monitor the context of the information. Once I relax, just a bit, I am prone to being massively open.
These ones I will totally discuss if asked:
Your financial/socioeconomic status?
Your religious beliefs?
Your political beliefs?
Substance (ab)use?
These ones if I know them and they inquire:
Your sex life?
Messy personal relationships?
Quality of significant relationships?
Illnesses (psychological and physical)
Hysterically me and the ISTJs all talk about our sex lives together. Also the ISTJs totally dig therapy and will tell you explicitly how many times they have been.
(On a side note, it turns out most people I work with are visiting two local therapists. My company is quite well known in local psychiatric circles. I wasnt always this emo-nutty)
The one thing I will NOT talk about:
How I feel emotionally about something. Hurt feelings/love feelings. Even writing emo/Fi posts here leaves me really anxious and sort of emotionally torn up and overwhelmed.
Dont ask me what I feel.
I have no Fe, thus no sense of shame and will talk quite openly about things others will not-if someone asks or expresses an interest.
I fail the "how was your weekend/" question quite often. "mediocre", " it sucked", "beautiful with waves of happiness" when "great, how was yours" is the correct answer.
I have to very specifically monitor the context of the information. Once I relax, just a bit, I am prone to being massively open.
These ones I will totally discuss if asked:
Your financial/socioeconomic status?
Your religious beliefs?
Your political beliefs?
Substance (ab)use?
These ones if I know them and they inquire:
Your sex life?
Messy personal relationships?
Quality of significant relationships?
Illnesses (psychological and physical)
Hysterically me and the ISTJs all talk about our sex lives together. Also the ISTJs totally dig therapy and will tell you explicitly how many times they have been.
(On a side note, it turns out most people I work with are visiting two local therapists. My company is quite well known in local psychiatric circles. I wasnt always this emo-nutty)
The one thing I will NOT talk about:
How I feel emotionally about something. Hurt feelings/love feelings. Even writing emo/Fi posts here leaves me really anxious and sort of emotionally torn up and overwhelmed.
Dont ask me what I feel.