Giggly
No moss growing on me
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I think I get your point, but I have experienced both sides of "easy come, easy go". (just saying)
This may have happened to you a few times but I think in reality this is a random phenomenon. I believe a lot of things that happen in relationships happen because of luck or just by random chance. In other words, someone could come just as easy and never go. I've seen that happen too.
I think it's entirely possible for there to be exceptions to the rules (I know my sisters are, and I'm super proud of them ^_^) and maybe you and a few other women on this forum are similarly exempt from this (in which case.. why can't there be more of you!?!?) but I think overall, this "alternate interest with disinterest"/"playing hard to get" tactic is used by both genders. Girls do it as often as guys do xD
It's just another aspect of the games most people play when they're in the dating world.
Personally? I think it's immature and stupid, and I'm not any good at it.
But if that's how everyone else is playing the game..
..then some of us cross our arms and sit on the sidelines.
There's no need to check out completely. Just avoid it when you see signs of it.