cascadeco
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- 9w1
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- sp/sx
I dunno, I suppose in a general sense what's being described is more stereotypically Fe, as Fe is about taking the other person into account and adapting to that moreso than feeling the need to convey own viewpoint/self.
But on the other hand, Fi users who VALUE not offending others or VALUE being diplomatic and not ruffling feathers would be just the same. I know my INTJ boyfriend values being respectful to people and diplomacy...but this is probably different than worrying about offending. And it probably goes beyond him purely valuing it - he probably also doesn't think to be otherwise is to effectively navigate the world, accomplish things, and deal with people. And I think in many cases he would be bothered if he offended someone and hadn't intended to/it was a result of miscommunication - and he'd try to resolve that.
But on the other hand, Fi users who VALUE not offending others or VALUE being diplomatic and not ruffling feathers would be just the same. I know my INTJ boyfriend values being respectful to people and diplomacy...but this is probably different than worrying about offending. And it probably goes beyond him purely valuing it - he probably also doesn't think to be otherwise is to effectively navigate the world, accomplish things, and deal with people. And I think in many cases he would be bothered if he offended someone and hadn't intended to/it was a result of miscommunication - and he'd try to resolve that.