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Hey; I'm here to just talking about this.
Does anybody have any tips on accepting/liking yourself? I sometimes have those issues, but then again I'm a teenager !
'Cause currently I have issues with my appearance (I don't want to seem like a sad-case, but I think I am. I keep downgrading myself, and I'm ugly, I can tell you that ; and don't tell me any of that 'I'm sure you ain't!). I'm trying to be my usual self, but my friends aren't here to distract me. All studying...
It was just that one day a girl came up to me and said I was ugly. And looked weird. I didn't know her, but it really did cut me deep. I'm a sensitive person you know, even if I'm always smiling and optimistic D:!
Anyways enough whining and attention getting. I'm trying to conduct some sort of essay/conclusion on this topic. Contributions please? I've posted this on other forums as well, so I just wanted to hear your thoughts.
Okay here comes the general guideline!
1) What do you think are your strengths/weaknesses
2) Was there anyone there who were supportive? Or did you do it alone?
3) Did the people around you affect your views? Or was it more you affected it yourself?
4)How did you improve on(or deprive of)these thoughts/ideas? Was there some special 'formula' involved?
5)So in conclusion, what are the 'tips'?
6)Other suggestions/ideas/values/morals/ethics/blah you want to add.
7)I'm on a J mode, so give a bibliography!
Thoughts?
Does anybody have any tips on accepting/liking yourself? I sometimes have those issues, but then again I'm a teenager !
'Cause currently I have issues with my appearance (I don't want to seem like a sad-case, but I think I am. I keep downgrading myself, and I'm ugly, I can tell you that ; and don't tell me any of that 'I'm sure you ain't!). I'm trying to be my usual self, but my friends aren't here to distract me. All studying...
It was just that one day a girl came up to me and said I was ugly. And looked weird. I didn't know her, but it really did cut me deep. I'm a sensitive person you know, even if I'm always smiling and optimistic D:!
Anyways enough whining and attention getting. I'm trying to conduct some sort of essay/conclusion on this topic. Contributions please? I've posted this on other forums as well, so I just wanted to hear your thoughts.
Okay here comes the general guideline!
1) What do you think are your strengths/weaknesses
2) Was there anyone there who were supportive? Or did you do it alone?
3) Did the people around you affect your views? Or was it more you affected it yourself?
4)How did you improve on(or deprive of)these thoughts/ideas? Was there some special 'formula' involved?
5)So in conclusion, what are the 'tips'?
6)Other suggestions/ideas/values/morals/ethics/blah you want to add.
7)I'm on a J mode, so give a bibliography!
Thoughts?