So, I have found from my past encounters with all types of people that there is one specific type of person who annoys me the most. Since I am a male INTJ, I will make the assumption that at least all the other male INTJs (most of them at least) will agree with me on this matter. I dont know about the females. This one specific type of person who really gets on my nerves is usually a female (b/c I cant imagine nor have met any male who acts as I will describe).
So this type of girl is usually always talking. Talking about nonsense. Talking about how wonderful life is. Talking about how happy she is. Talking about how excited she is about her future. Updating her Facebook status every hour (like her life is that important). Always gives that fake smile (seems fake to me at least). I'm so disgusted just thinking about it. During lunch or dinner somewhere, she will be the one talking to everyone about her quirky brother-in-law who is this and that and does awesome funny stuff, and then goes on to state how weird her family is and how much she loves them and how much she loves her nephews and nieces and goes onto to describe the origin or their names. So I basically learn everything about her life (sort of, because I usually start thinking about more important things in my life...she's mentioned her nephews and nieces names several times, but I still have no idea what they are). "Important" is a subjective word, I understand, but even so, how much did I have to tolerate?
Specifically, I have met two girls in my life who were extremes at this, one very recently. When I was having a conversation with this recent girl and our ENFP friend (notice I said "our", otherwise I would never have had that conversation), I noticed how half the things I said just flew over her head. This is not in the context that she is stupid (in the traditional sense of the word), because she gets decent grades and stuff (and is a physics major just like me and my ENFP friend), but just in the sense that she didn't seem to understand my words. It was actually funny because my ENFP friend had to translate several times what I said so that this girl could understand. The ENFP was so on top of everything I said, it was scary.
Other things I've noticed about these (extremely annoying) two girls is that they seemed to have a thing for me, even though it was far from my mind. Both of them particularly had this way of randomly walking up to me and seating themselves right next to me (very close). I would simply not make any move or say anything, so then, they would eventually get up and walk away.
Anyways, the purpose of this thread is to help me figure out (or state to me if you already know) what type are these girls. I will state for sure that they're E (for obvious reasons). Both of these girls were also neat in their handwriting (my simplest method of detecting J/P), so I will state that they were J's as well. Details aside, I've seen them present PowerPoint presentations as well, and they were effectively organized, so more indication of being J over P (b/c P's are usually messy).
Overall, my guess (out of my intuition) is ESFJ, but I really have no idea! Plus, on another note, I can't help wonder why this girl is majoring in physics (an object oriented field) when she is clearly only interested in people? Not to seem arrogant, but I highly doubt she will succeed in the future...just being realistic.
So this type of girl is usually always talking. Talking about nonsense. Talking about how wonderful life is. Talking about how happy she is. Talking about how excited she is about her future. Updating her Facebook status every hour (like her life is that important). Always gives that fake smile (seems fake to me at least). I'm so disgusted just thinking about it. During lunch or dinner somewhere, she will be the one talking to everyone about her quirky brother-in-law who is this and that and does awesome funny stuff, and then goes on to state how weird her family is and how much she loves them and how much she loves her nephews and nieces and goes onto to describe the origin or their names. So I basically learn everything about her life (sort of, because I usually start thinking about more important things in my life...she's mentioned her nephews and nieces names several times, but I still have no idea what they are). "Important" is a subjective word, I understand, but even so, how much did I have to tolerate?
Specifically, I have met two girls in my life who were extremes at this, one very recently. When I was having a conversation with this recent girl and our ENFP friend (notice I said "our", otherwise I would never have had that conversation), I noticed how half the things I said just flew over her head. This is not in the context that she is stupid (in the traditional sense of the word), because she gets decent grades and stuff (and is a physics major just like me and my ENFP friend), but just in the sense that she didn't seem to understand my words. It was actually funny because my ENFP friend had to translate several times what I said so that this girl could understand. The ENFP was so on top of everything I said, it was scary.
Other things I've noticed about these (extremely annoying) two girls is that they seemed to have a thing for me, even though it was far from my mind. Both of them particularly had this way of randomly walking up to me and seating themselves right next to me (very close). I would simply not make any move or say anything, so then, they would eventually get up and walk away.
Anyways, the purpose of this thread is to help me figure out (or state to me if you already know) what type are these girls. I will state for sure that they're E (for obvious reasons). Both of these girls were also neat in their handwriting (my simplest method of detecting J/P), so I will state that they were J's as well. Details aside, I've seen them present PowerPoint presentations as well, and they were effectively organized, so more indication of being J over P (b/c P's are usually messy).
Overall, my guess (out of my intuition) is ESFJ, but I really have no idea! Plus, on another note, I can't help wonder why this girl is majoring in physics (an object oriented field) when she is clearly only interested in people? Not to seem arrogant, but I highly doubt she will succeed in the future...just being realistic.