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Dali
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I'm not trying to get into your (tweed) pants.
I'm just curious.
I'm just curious.
Alternatively, the kinder someone is, the less intelligent she can be before I'll want to leave.
has this been true for you? jeez, i guess i should count myself lucky to be kind AND intelligent and to be surrounded by other people who are. i guess some of us have it all.
jokes aside, do you think they're mutually exclusive? am i missing a joke?
The smarter someone is, the more evil she can be before I'll want to leave.
Alternatively, the kinder someone is, the less intelligent she can be before I'll want to leave.
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No, they're not mutually exclusive. However, there are extremes for both, and the probability of being both extremely kind and extremely bright is rather low (especially when one considers that she must be physically attractive as well).
Just from the list of who you have dated, the smart money is on you actually prefer kindness over intellegence (given the F types you've been with)
I do have a preference for kindness, but the F types were plenty intelligent (just not in the ways that I am). I have been attracted to one or two cold, calculating geniuses though.
That's a long list... I can agree to most of them. Not wanting children? Okay, that's something both partners should agree on. I can also see too much difference in interest being a problem.Irrationality (astrology, homeopathy, most theism, etc). Stupidity. Wanting children. Unacceptable difference in interests (not liking science/technology, not liking interesting hypothetical scenarios, liking sports, etc) and/or values (being anti-science/technology, opposition to transhumanism, being against the freedom of sapient beings, etc). A lack of curiosity or intellectualism (in the sense that one likes thinking). A lack of vision or imagination. Bad hygiene. Warning signs (going after guys for their money, etc). A lack of (what I see as) compatibility. Caring too much about social nonsense.
Not sure if that's all of them.
My list is simple.
Must have nice smile, good vibe between us, average to above average intelligence, average to above average corpus (she needs to have a little meat on her body) and someone that will give me space.
Dealbreakers would be unstable life if having kids (meaning disputes with father over custody and such), drugaddicts, someone that cant compromise and someone that dont respect my decisions.
As long that is met which I think most girls would fit, everything else is pretty much up for grabs.
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-Bearing false witness.
Stupidity, absurd emotion based decision making, overly emotional neediness, needlessly talkative about nonsensical things, opposing ideals, unladylike behavior, cheating, drugs, etc., bad hygiene, a need to change me into something I'm not, a need to make me into something I'm not, a need to use me for something I'm not, excessive emotional coldness, goldiggerish behavior, a dislike of thinking, a dislike of my thoughts, a desire to force me into too much social stuff, can't cook; unwilling to learn/help cook, can't clean; unwilling to learn/help clean, pity loving, self-defeating, argumentative, uncooperative, ignoring of my feelings but expecting to be catered to completely, an undeserving and unrealistic extreme princess mentality, etc.
I probably have more but I'm tired now.