violet_crown
Active member
- Joined
- Jun 18, 2009
- Messages
- 4,959
- MBTI Type
- ENTJ
- Enneagram
- 853
- Instinctual Variant
- sx/sp
I am hoping to start a general discussion on love and E5s. Much to my delight, I've recently gotten involved with an INTJ 5w4. I had always found 5s to be attractive, but was of the general impression that I was a little too crude for them.
Whatever the case may have been, I seemed to have hit it off with this guy, but am admittedly ignorant as to much of anything about 5s. What moves them? What are--generally speaking--deal breakers? What tends to make them feel cared for and respected?
Naturally, a lot of this will have to be worked out with him as we get to know each other, but I'd love to hear from men and women who identify as 5s just to get some general feedback. What tend to be your insecurities when it comes to relationships? What do you feel are your strengths as partners?
There's been a lot about the INTJ that has been unexpectedly delightful--the blend of geeky introversion interwoven with definite opinion, swagger and vulnerability, and all that jazz--and he seems to be into me as well. Not sure how it will all end up, but I'm open to pointers on how not to fuck it up.
Thoughts?
Whatever the case may have been, I seemed to have hit it off with this guy, but am admittedly ignorant as to much of anything about 5s. What moves them? What are--generally speaking--deal breakers? What tends to make them feel cared for and respected?
Naturally, a lot of this will have to be worked out with him as we get to know each other, but I'd love to hear from men and women who identify as 5s just to get some general feedback. What tend to be your insecurities when it comes to relationships? What do you feel are your strengths as partners?
There's been a lot about the INTJ that has been unexpectedly delightful--the blend of geeky introversion interwoven with definite opinion, swagger and vulnerability, and all that jazz--and he seems to be into me as well. Not sure how it will all end up, but I'm open to pointers on how not to fuck it up.
Thoughts?