Did you confront them or try to talk to them anyway? They either really wanted you to or really didn't. You would have known by their reaction when confronted. If they wanted you to, they were waiting for something. Maybe you said or did something they found offensive or they said something expecting feedback & didn't get it. If they really didn't want to talk to you, they may have lost interest, but it would probably be because of some choice they made. I don't know, I can't go from being "really" interested in someone to ignoring them unless I'm mad or testing them. Then again, ENFJs can seem to be flirty when they are just socializing. In this case, if they caught wind that you wanted more they may be distancing to show that they don't.
What did they do that made them seem interested?
hmmm, thanks for the input
I know she was interested at the time, because of all the usual signs.
If it's a case of that I was supposed to give feedback and didn't and that's enough to get cold-shouldered by an ENFJ then yeh, I'm screwed, because on one "date" I counted about 10 times when I didn't give feedback and she was obviosuly looking for it. I didn't realise it was that big of a deal though.
would that be enough to make an ENFJ go off a guy and ignore him?
Also would an ENFJ woman really test a guy by ignoring him? interesting. what would be the way to pass that test? (if it's not a secret I shouldn't be told that is)
Nah I didn't confront her by the way. I'd tried to get in touch before and she ignored it*, so, I figured it was up to her. I avoided looking at her straight on to, as she did with me.
*well she did about two weeks later send a pretty formal explanation on facebook explaining why she hadn't replied. I replied to that 2 days later, in the same vein, saying it was no big deal, and that was the last contact before we saw each other at this other event where she ignored me.