I don't think a double T or double F relationship would make for a good pair. Personally, I get more out of a relationship with an F than a T. I need someone that balances me, not reinforces my natural preferences. T women just don't manage to evoke the same feelings in me than F women do. With an F woman, I feel we both have seperate strengths and function as a team. With a T woman, we have similar strengths and so there is the potential for competition. However, the last thing I want in a relationship is to start arguing with my partner about the logic of X or Y. And I want to trust my partner to help me with the emotional/relational side of things.
I'm talking to everyone here, not just Maverick.
That sounds good in theory... but what about a couple of Ts who enjoy competition with each other, taking it lightly, and having loads of fun? And what about a couple of Ts who are both emotionally mature as well as being thought dominant? OR a couple of Fs that feel really comfortable with each other and understand each other better than anyone else in the world?
Your way of seeing things certainly works if you find the right woman, but it seems to be a bit limited
to me. You don't want your partner to ever challenge your logic? LOL, why not? What's that going to hurt? Maybe she can
help. Okay, I said challenge, but you said argue, so I won't put words in your mouth. Sorry about that.
But why would it need to turn into an argument? You can either prove that you're position is best or you can allow her to make it better. Where's the negative in that?
And wanting to trust your partner to help with emotional/relational things is sweet, and it would be a blessing if you had a such a jewel, but you almost make it sound like you don't want to try to make improvement in that area on your own. You don't have to rely on her for that shit! She can help, but you make it sound like it's her job and that it's beneath you or too far away for yourself to grasp or something like that. (However, I do not make assumptions! I just follow my intuitive thoughts and see where they can go. Maybe the whole point of wanting an F woman is so that you can grow into being more F. Relationships and self growth go hand in hand.)
It seems like you like the idea of having clearly defined roles for the male and female so that they fit together perfectly to make a great team. That makes sense, and it's a very common occurrence. That's sort of been the tradition. But I think there's better, or at least more, options that also can lead to phenomenal relationships.
For example, two Ts can get along great if they are both trying to develop their emotions at the same time. They can learn from each other and tease each other about it. They can encourage each other, and at the same time be completely understanding of any emotional lack or fault, therefore no blame is place. Emotional demands and needs are low, yet they are still important enough to work with and analyze, but not important enough to get pissed about. In some cases, it might even be easier for the two hypothetical Ts to grow out from themselves and into the relationship because they understand each so well. Their conflicts are ones that can be settled through logic, unlike a deep T vs. F conflict where there is just no common ground at all.
I guess my main concern is that I wouldn't want people to count on their partner to make up for things they are not good at. They can help, but I think you should always try to be as much as you can by yourself. So maybe the wife cooks and you do the yard work and it's a great system, but why not switch and get good at the other side, too? Share the experiences together, have fun, and be prepared to make an excellent dinner for the wife after she's spent all day doing something crappy.
Maybe some people really like to stick to defined roles, I don't know. But it's not like a man would forget how to play football if he learned how to do something new. You can have it all. To me, two people striving to have it all in themselves makes a greater and more diverse pair than two people trying to fill in each others gaps.
Please, people, don't be offended if any part of that seemed way too obvious. I just think and talk too much.
And of course, Maverick said that T women just can't manage to evoke the same kind of feelings in him that F women do. So there's absolutely nothing wrong with that! If it's just a natural attraction thing, it's quite simple. I know I'm not at all attracted to masculine women, but T women, sure, it just depends on the woman.