Well, I could couch it and disclaim it, but I'm afraid the simple and honest anwser is 'yes', because frankly, you are! You might not be doing it with malicious intent or anything, but the point is, you're not happy with a situation because it makes you FEEL bad, there might be no logic, no reason or objective rationale to support your desire for it to change, but you want it to change all the same, so that YOU can be happy. That is subjective, and to my way of thinking, it would seem selfish and self-indulgent.
I see it as my problem if I feel bad about something, unless there's significant evidence to prove that it's not "just me", that it's not just because of subjective reasons that I don't like it, but because it's illogical, inefficient or otherwise in need of change for objective reasons that are applicable to the majority. Get over it? Yeah, I guess... find a way to see it differently so that I can be okay with it, or just... suck it up! LOL