unceremonious
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first post here!
I'll just cut to the chase here; there's an ISTP I've been interested in for a couple months now, and in the past month the interest seems to be mutual:
now the question is...is slow and steady how ISTPs operate? Recently we haven't had a chance to see each other (a lot of external circumstances, not excuses), but he refuses to go into detail about certain things over text, and will always say "I'll have to tell you about it in person". He says we get along great and have great times together, so could that possibly be a way for me to suggest one on one time outside of our environment, or should I continue letting him slowly make his way to me? For the record the only times I have initiated conversation are when we are apart (and all but once had a purpose, but the conversations evolve into other matters). Whenever he initiates it's in person, and always about random personal things. Any guidance, or am I doing fine so far?
I'll just cut to the chase here; there's an ISTP I've been interested in for a couple months now, and in the past month the interest seems to be mutual:
- immediate replies to texts day or night and keeping the convo going after I try to end it
- standard body language (following me with his eyes, huge smiles, 'puffing himself up', letting me see him checking me out)
- always willing to help / do favors even for insignificant things
- telling me how he really feels about situations / sharing something and implying it's a secret ("between me and you" / texting me instead of answering me in front of others)
- reassuring compliments and overt support
- initiating conversations in person and seeming perturbed if we're interrupted
now the question is...is slow and steady how ISTPs operate? Recently we haven't had a chance to see each other (a lot of external circumstances, not excuses), but he refuses to go into detail about certain things over text, and will always say "I'll have to tell you about it in person". He says we get along great and have great times together, so could that possibly be a way for me to suggest one on one time outside of our environment, or should I continue letting him slowly make his way to me? For the record the only times I have initiated conversation are when we are apart (and all but once had a purpose, but the conversations evolve into other matters). Whenever he initiates it's in person, and always about random personal things. Any guidance, or am I doing fine so far?