You probably are sensitive to chemical smells. Your mother sounds like a pretty insensitive person if she judges you for not liking your clothes to smell like a mildly toxic air freshener.
I am sensitive to smells, they bother me greatly, if anything I have seen this correlate to SF types, not ENTP.
I especially hate strong chemical smells, and no they are not especially good for you. You probably have strong instincts or allergies. I can be woken up by smells, like perfume, bleach, or Lysol, if I am sleeping, I am intolerant of it.
Scientists say women have a stronger sense of smell than men.
Also if the sensory change bothers you more than the smell itself, that could mean you have more Si than you think, or it could even be Aspergers if it happens with most changes.