TopherRed
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- Joined
- Jul 28, 2009
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- MBTI Type
- ENFJ
- Enneagram
- 2w3
- Instinctual Variant
- so/sx
I'm having a serious problem dealing with certain Sensate leaders in my purview. I'm a 1w2 ENFJ, or I'm relatively sure...and I'm driven to try to solve problems I see--the cracks in the foundation of community that so often underminds and destroys it. If I am not given the opportunity, I am at a loss, and I suffer, personally for it when the community fails. With sensate leaders, the things my instinct tells me can save the community, get tossed to the wayside and are not considered.
Then the community blows up, or in the very least, fails in some major way that I predicted, and dissolves. I'm right often enough that I've learned to trust my instincts.
Needless to say, I've also learned that I have a place, sometimes, that place isn't one of leadership. It hurts like hell when the communities I love go under. It has gotten to the point that when the leadership is too closed off to listen, whether do to pride, their immaturity, (or possibly?) my immaturity, I need to step back.
So I have one question, if you guys wouldn't mind humoring me with a little analysis...
How can I best reach Sensate leadership? I admit, I believe I am an amiable guy, despite my reformist tendencies, but perhaps that's not enough to have my gut feelings heard.
--Fuzzy
Then the community blows up, or in the very least, fails in some major way that I predicted, and dissolves. I'm right often enough that I've learned to trust my instincts.
Needless to say, I've also learned that I have a place, sometimes, that place isn't one of leadership. It hurts like hell when the communities I love go under. It has gotten to the point that when the leadership is too closed off to listen, whether do to pride, their immaturity, (or possibly?) my immaturity, I need to step back.
So I have one question, if you guys wouldn't mind humoring me with a little analysis...
How can I best reach Sensate leadership? I admit, I believe I am an amiable guy, despite my reformist tendencies, but perhaps that's not enough to have my gut feelings heard.
--Fuzzy