Sensors in my life complain about my form of conversation sometimes.
I'm too "analytical" for SFs - to them this is tiresome and even read as "argumentative". I'm too impractical for STs - to them there is no reason to talk of these ideas. I see the eyes roll or glaze over.
Se-dom don't like my speculation. My ESFP sister would cut me off growing up to say, "That's not real". She cannot stand to hear anything hypothetical, theoretical, or illustrative even. She'll just tune it out or start talking over it.
With Si-dom, I can get farther. They like info. I can discuss interests with them and analyze to a point. They're patient with me.
Even my playful side is not grasped - it's too odd for the STs and too wry for the SFs. Some of that is my own insecurity though; ENPs just go for it & accept the weird label, knowing they are entertaining.
I don't like to discuss my life events; this seems secretive to Ss. I don't recall any details; I seem disinterested or uninteresting because of it. I don't bond over relating my experiences or stating future, concrete plans; I seem detached to them. My interests are too bookish; I don't have enough action in my life to catch their attention.
However, I adapt to Ss more than vice versa, and I suspect this is why Ss complain less. There are more of them, and from an early age you must adapt to be understood. Metaphorical speak has to be eased up and the urge to consider the meaning of something & what it indicates in relation to something else is squashed as it does not relate enough to "real life". If it relates to real life, then they might hear you out for approx 2 minutes.
When I find I can speak without this filter, it is often an N. Not always, but when it is an S, it's usually someone I've known for awhile, that I am close to, who is willing to adapt to me a bit; OR I'm doing "feeling" conversation, which I find easier to bond with most people over.
For me, "N conversation" is not deeper, not about certain topics, not heavier, just a certain way of approaching things. It's hard to articulate the difference.