BlackCat
Shaman
- Joined
- Nov 19, 2008
- Messages
- 7,038
- MBTI Type
- ESFP
- Enneagram
- 9w8
- Instinctual Variant
- sx/sp
Security 100
Avoidance 60
Ambivalence 61
Worry 56
Merger 67
You have great security in your relationships and receive good comfort from being around the people you love. This helps you to cope with life and to be strong in other situations.
You have some commitment issues and often find it difficult to commit yourself emotionally to a relationship (specifically new ones). This means that other people can find it difficult to get close to you and may not draw as much satisfaction from being in a relationship with you. Making an effort to open yourself up more to new relationships could help you to have more emotional stability and to enjoy relationships more.
You stress a bit too much about relationships and can sometimes place too much importance on their success or failure. Worrying less about relationships and spending more time enjoying them will help their longevity and success.You are moderately worried about being abandoned in your relationships, and do spend some time worrying if your partner, family or friends still love you. However generally you are able to overcome these feelings. You are sometimes overly clingy in relationships and may try too hard to dominate the affections of people who are close to you. This behaviour can sometimes have a bad effect on the relationship and may drive people away.
Avoidance 60
Ambivalence 61
Worry 56
Merger 67
You have great security in your relationships and receive good comfort from being around the people you love. This helps you to cope with life and to be strong in other situations.
You have some commitment issues and often find it difficult to commit yourself emotionally to a relationship (specifically new ones). This means that other people can find it difficult to get close to you and may not draw as much satisfaction from being in a relationship with you. Making an effort to open yourself up more to new relationships could help you to have more emotional stability and to enjoy relationships more.
You stress a bit too much about relationships and can sometimes place too much importance on their success or failure. Worrying less about relationships and spending more time enjoying them will help their longevity and success.You are moderately worried about being abandoned in your relationships, and do spend some time worrying if your partner, family or friends still love you. However generally you are able to overcome these feelings. You are sometimes overly clingy in relationships and may try too hard to dominate the affections of people who are close to you. This behaviour can sometimes have a bad effect on the relationship and may drive people away.