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- Joined
- Jul 6, 2010
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- so/sx
KDude said:Not me. I'm a little jaded about them too. I'll use an ENFJ psychologist I know, who does try to help people.. Yet at the same time, she's full of contradictions in her personal life. Even admits she has a thing for "cocky thugs", and wishes she could get over it. And it almost seems like every NFJ is confused like this for a time. They're not perfect (nor do I expect them to be. I'm just de-mythologizing for a moment). I chalk it up to their latent Se, and woefully retarded/immature views on what is cool about it. They tend to be fascinated with the lowest common denominator expression of an STP at least at one point in their life - and anyone here who denies it is lying through their teeth. On top of that, they'll condescend on INFPs as too sensitive.. even though they themselves are pretty turbulent and confused in their own right.
Thanks for listening =D
sidenote, not to butt into a convo i don't belong in, but i'm close with a few ENFJs - i def agree on Se, and also important that Ni-Fe is not anchored in the same way that Fi is, hence what we see as personal contradictions. they don't do the same kind of internal consistency we do. i find it very interesting.