Moar quessiunz!
1) Are you easily guilt-tripped?
2) What do you sometimes envy in INFJs (or FJs in general)?
3) Do you have a strong negative reaction to people who express emotions they're not really feeling ("phonies")?
4) Is it hard for you to "cut off contact" with people?
5) Do you usually need a strong case to sever bonds with people, or do you mostly go with your gut?
I'm INFP enough to answer these questions methinks.
1. I easily feel guilt. I can go whole days of vaguely feeling guilty. However I am not guilt-tripped easily as I am good at recognising a guilt trip for what it is, and then have no problem rejecting the feeling prompted.
2. The only INFJ I know well is Lexicon. I envy her coolness.
3. My reaction to people that fake emotion will often be very negative. But feelings might include apathy, amusement, irritation, contempt, disgust and pity. It really depends on how and what they are faking.
When others go to great effort to hide the negative sides of their personality they are really coming from a different planet to me. Ill wear my negatives on the outside when I can, and try to do the same for my positives, though that's harder for me.
4. Its very easy for me to cut off contact once I decide that is what I will do. Up to that point the road can be rocky and confused, but once the decision is made its done.
5. Making friendships will be based on the gut, breaking them will be more based on reasons. I feel as if anyone I've made friends with deserves solid reasons.