What do you look for in a man, both physically and in personality?
- I think I search more for personality traits than physical ones. When I find a guy interesting, he looks more handsome than before getting to know him. I mean, I could say I like tall, hairy, pale guys with black hair and green eyes, but if they don't interest me as humans/rare specimens, they are "meh" and I'll try to look for someone else.
How do you feel about traditional gender roles?
- Gah. I'm more "boyish" than many guys I know. I'm not a tomboy, but close. If I could have chosen a gender before being born, I'd have chosen male, and would probably gay, haha I, as a gal, can't understand women at all. I prefer simple, funny and direct approaches. In a more philosophical way, I don't care, we are all humans, there should be no difference. Everyone should be able to do whatever they feel like regardless their gender, as well as other controversial yet stupid divisions.
What did you look for in boys-physically and in personality-when you were in high school/college?
- I once found an excerpt of a movie I don't remember, in which a girl was asked what kind of guys she liked, and she responded "I like guys who like me". Given that I'm beyond-extraterrestrial weird, that's a good start. I like smart, creative, funny guys who don't mind spending some minutes in silence doing nothing and let me have my alone-time and aren't depending all the time on what Imay or may not do, independent thinkers.
Do you ever wear revealing clothing? What is your primary method for finding a man?
- Revealing? I believe I have some "assets" that can't be hidden no matter what I do. But I don't dress to provoke. T-shirt, baggy pants, shoes, with no laces if possible. I hate all the golden sequins and high heels fashion. A pony tail or not even that. I don't go trying to find anyone. If they cross my way, perfect, if not, I go on with my life.
When choosing a guy, do you focus your energy on one guy at a time or do you test the waters and choose the best one?
- I first see who "chose" (what an ugly word) me, and then see if we are compatible. I don't date guys I haven't been friends with before because I like knowing them first. For me, "romance" is kind of an effort, so I don't want to waste my energies on someone who is not worth it.