Too early with the dirty talk.
I think INTJ / ENTP could work, but I like my women soft and nurturing, mostly because I'm such a prick. So, they would have to be feminine and sweet. My best friends in the world are INTJ's, but they're so retiring it can be a pain in the ass.
I totally have a soft and nurturing side.
I've never been in a relationship...there was something going on with another INTJ, but I decided against it for various reasons. He was SO like me and I felt totally accepted by him...but he was kind of a jerk to people he didn't respect, and there were a lot of people he didn't respect. He also really could not address his emotions, which was not a good thing. Even after I admitted that I liked him, he couldn't admit he felt the same way...in spite of holding my hand several times, paying for me everywhere, inviting me places etc. (And when I called him out on it, citing all those things, he said something like, "Well, I guess from that, logically you could say...blah, blah blah." LOGICALLY. HOW INTJ.) I mean, I thought I was bad with emotions, but come on. I also really have grown emotionally in the last couple of months; I used to deny my emotions much more, so I understood where he was coming from, but I think I need to be with someone who has had that growth already.
I think we were too similar to really learn from each other, and I felt like I would always be the one going outside of my comfort zone to pull him along (by being more flexible, more extroverted, sillier, etc).