INTJMom
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I struggle between T & F too.Hello there!
I wonder if I am INFJ or INTJ. I know these two personality types are very much alike, and therefore I have problems knowing in which group I belong.
I read this, and felt like it was a description of me when studying and working. INTJ Information
I love science and I am planning to become a vet. I am highly structured. I am complex, and sometimes I don't even understand myself. The feeling of seeing things most people don't see make me feel deeply lonely.
There is a few things, though, that make me disbelieve in the fact that I'm INTJ. I am very sensitive about others. If I am out with someone eating at a restaurant, I would feel bad the rest of the day if one of the others didn't like the food. It stresses me when others aren't pleased. I am not good at handling conflicts. It might seem like it on the outside, but inside I'm stressed. I need everything in my life to fit.
Also, when someone has problems, I like to listen to them and give advice.
When I make judgments, I always include both feelings and thinking. I try to find the golden middle that works for both feelings and reason.
Any questions, opinions or ideas of "what" I am? Thanks.
I think the core difference between T & F is whether you think/believe people should make decisions impartially or whether they should consider extenuating circumstances.
If you think it is WRONG for people to consider extenuating circumstances when making a decision, you are a T.
If you think it is WRONG to make a decision without looking at the extenuating circumstances, you are an F.
extenuating circumstances: the life situations and/or feelings of the people impacted by the decision