really sy? you're one of those people that believes your experience is the only truth? i wouldn't have thought that of you...it's not something i care to convince anyone of tho.
i never claimed my experience was THE truth....but you seem to be saying yours is.
i said this is how it feels to me...my truth..my experience and it can be felt the moment someone walks in the room...they can have a blank face...it doesn't matter.
but yes i agree with you that people interpret their experiences differently and this is one of those ways.
it is not true that i didn't read or understand what you wrote. i heard you i just have a different experience...i believe energy is like emotion...it is something felt and there are plenty of people in this world who do feel others emotions...rather or not that could ever be a proven fact...really don't give a shit...doesn't change a thing...so why would i care to debate that with you?
Well if you had read what I wrote you would have seen that I was saying this energy IS experienced like emotions.
And just as the same experience will produce different emotions in someone, so will other peoples moods and such. I'm not claiming you are not experiencing what you are experiencing. I'm claiming it's not something magical that is transmitted via air or some astral plane...I'm claiming that if you were blindfolded and with earplugs and entered the room...if you couldn't see or hear...you wouldn't know if the energy of the room was heavy or negative or positive. Are you claiming you would?
You are negatively judging my posts based on an initially perceived idea of some sort, but you are not unbiasedly analyzing the actual content of what I'm saying. You have already decided in your mind I'm trying to say something bad and you have already decided you don't care what I have to say on the subject because everything is subjective and every has their truths.
I'm trying to delve deeper and explain what is happening in people's brains.
i'm negatively judging your posts? interesting...are you implying you can read tone or pick up some sort of emotional vibe from words on a screen although you can't see me? i could very well be laughing and light hearted as i type...do you trust that instinct of yours?
It's like picking a lock. You can't just will it open, you must take your time.
I get a feeling straight away that something is going on and then look for certain clues in body language, tone of voice and things like that. So, the detection of emotions involves both the feeling and a later conscious action to find out the nuances.
It also depends on how close I am to the person. The more closer, the easier and quicker it is to detect certain emotions and the more accurate it is. With strangers or people I'm not that close to, it might take some time to figure out but the initial feeling that something is up is still there in the beginning.
How many emotions am I able to recognize? I don't know. How many are there? Haven't thought about it in such detail. I just feel it.
IME, NFs can appriciate the NTJ sense of humor. I get the sense they admire it.
How do you pick emotions of other people ?
In theory this is something in what NFs are suppose to be great at. So I am wondering how this works. Do you understand what the person is feeling right away? (like you should in online tests)
Or it is more likely that you will slowly have to figure it out through a body language/voice or somethinng like that ?
I am wondering if you try to determine this piece of information by "default" or it taks a conscious action to do this ? (or it depends)
Also if someone asks you how many emotions do you recognize what would you say as an answer ?
The reason why I am asking is because I am wondering about how to have a better dinamic with NFs in real life.
It all stems from a spiritual perspective. NF's start tuning their souls to pick up "vibrations" of their soul, which in turn also means others as well.
Excellent question. There happen being a whole host with many variables. Of course we (NF) are attuned with both the language with body, and also speech intonation. How i do it is when in conversation with another being, i listen to what one says. This happens supposedly in a nano-second rate in that i perceive a similar, parrallel situation i happened finding myself in. I then can relate to the speaker, even if the situation is not the same, i can relate on how it could possibly be. I listen with the words spoken. I detect the emotional resonance of their body as well as voice. I interpret (again in a semi split time frame).How do you pick emotions of other people ?
In theory this is something in what NFs are suppose to be great at. So I am wondering how this works. Do you understand what the person is feeling right away? (like you should in online tests)
Or it is more likely that you will slowly have to figure it out through a body language/voice or somethinng like that ?
I am wondering if you try to determine this piece of information by "default" or it taks a conscious action to do this ? (or it depends)
Also if someone asks you how many emotions do you recognize what would you say as an answer ?
The reason why I am asking is because I am wondering about how to have a better dinamic with NFs in real life.
1. Body language
2. Tone of voice
3. Words being used
4. Previous experience with the person and their reactions
5. Previous experience with someone similar and the other person's reactions compared.
1. Body language
2. Tone of voice
3. Words being used
4. Previous experience with the person and their reactions
5. Previous experience with someone similar and the other person's reactions compared.
Hard to explain, but I get a feeling. It doesn't make sense, not even to me. I suppose it's from the way they talk, how they treat others, how they treat me when we interact. Body language? I also notice details that I think most (???) people may overlook...expressions, reactions... I just kind of know. Or I think I know anyway.
1. Body language
2. Tone of voice
3. Words being used
4. Previous experience with the person and their reactions
5. Previous experience with someone similar and the other person's reactions compared.