1. NFs, have you been with other NFs?
I tend to date other NFs. I'm drawn to other feelers for romance. Fi is like CRACK. I seriously keep on falling for INFPs (who are always sooo cute but immature or "dealing with problems") I don't know what's wrong with me - and no I'm not trying to 'fix' people!
Also, the Ni/Fe combo can be really magnetic to me. Two of the most affectionate and warmest people I have known (and dated) were an INFP and an INFJ respectively.
I know there is a lot of of NT/NF mutual attraction from the boards, but I would not want to date an NT. I have a lot of NT friends and have been involved with an INTP before.
Based on my friendships and past experience - it's not what I want in a romantic relationship.
For me NF/NF is not too much, at all. I like muchly the warmth of Fe as well as the curious nature of Fi (it's gooey inside a cold prickly contrarian exterior! LOL)
.....If so, does this description ring true to you?
That was a too long description. And kinda depressing. But yes, basically it can be passionate but also tumultuous. I find that when dating more sensitive and needy NFs, I turn into the "bad cop" emotionally but as far as practical matters the other person takes the lead more.
Also, when you feel you know someone well (because they are so similar to you) you can feel greater frustration with them and have less patience with them.
I find with INFJs moreso than ENFPs it takes a while to get a rhythm going or get through that Fe wall? I dunno what it is. All I know is that I had to stop dating this INFJ to establish an emotional connection with her and start dating again.
INFJs are very similar to INTJs when you are just getting to know them.
2. If you are an NF currently in a relationship with another NF, how is it going?
.....What, if any, are the main issues you struggle with?
.....Any tips for other NFs with NFs?
Man, if you are ENFP or INFP and you think someone ELSE is overly sensitive - something's wrong! I tend to think the INFPs I date are extremely sensitive. INFJs overthink things.
The most important thing for two NFs dating is to be very very honest and forthcoming. INFPs especially have a tendency to withdraw or put up with things that they don't like and only tell you much later. Fi makes you withdraw when you are hurt and if this happens to often soon the relationship has just gone to hell and it takes a lot of work to bring it back.
There is a lot of "processing" with an NF-NF pairing. Sometimes too much (I know this and the above paragraph seem to contradict each other). The overthinking just kills things and makes problems worse. NFs need to take a step back, breathe, and either learn to just enjoy each other's company or else let go.
3. If you're curious about the NF-NF pairing, does this description help you at all?
Not really...I just say it's "like crack". Much better description. And shorter, too.
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