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Would you/have you? Under what circumstances? What do you actually consider cheating?
Would you/have you?
Under what circumstances?
What do you actually consider cheating?
I have not. I hope that I would not. I actually go out of my way to avoid situations that might create the kind of courtship atmosphere in which it would be likely to happen. I do not believe I am incapable of cheating. I don't think anyone is.Would you/have you? Under what circumstances? What do you actually consider cheating?
If you mean relationships:
Never. The first (and only) person I dated cheated on me and I don't ever want to feel like that again, much less make someone else feel like that. Ironically, they promised me a week before they would never hurt me. (And they wonder why I don't trust anyone?)
No matter how much I love someone, if they are unfaithful I won't be able to forgive them, and I'll be sure to make that very clear to everyone I date. I take promises seriously, and I take commitment even more seriously. If they are so unhappy with me that they would cheat on me, I hope they at least pay the courtesy of breaking up with me before they do it.
Would you/have you? Under what circumstances?
What do you actually consider cheating?
So for me, cheating means knowinglydoing anything outside the agreement or anything your reasonable partner would feel betrayed, hurt and/or angry by. Usually this is compounded by lying and so much creative justification like "I didn't want to tell you because it's not important/I didn't want to hurt you/ etc." More than the cheating itself the lies and excuses the cheater tells pisses me of more.
Would you/have you? Under what circumstances? What do you actually consider cheating?
THERE! That's the definition I was working towards.. but my own personal spin and preferences got in the way. XD Thank you Cze.