Neutralpov
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Having read the mindmates thread on INTPcentral and this thread http://http://www.typologycentral.com/forums/nt-private-forum/11053-mindmates-how-far-will-you-go.html in the private forum I am left with questions more than answers
What is the point of meeting a mindmate anyway?
Is there a biological or sociological reason for this phenomenon?
What is the reason many people experience this connection and do not end up marrying the mindmate?
What spiritual implication is there (if any)? Does this show some cosmic design or human need/theory?
Those who married someone who was not a mindmate do you find this frustrating or would you change that if you could go back??? (seemed like the NTs with SJs regretted their choice of partner in the threads)
Anyway in my experience I have come across one (likely INTP) mindmate in the past and it was quite a disappointment to lose. So it has left me more existential than ever and pondering the point of this fleeting connection (as I would want to marry a mindmate after the experience but have no control over it being so)? Also how biologically can this be? Perhaps I should look at psychology instead but I digress... thoughts, opinions, comments and musings welcome.
- NeutralPOV, Formerly HeatherC
What is the point of meeting a mindmate anyway?
Is there a biological or sociological reason for this phenomenon?
What is the reason many people experience this connection and do not end up marrying the mindmate?
What spiritual implication is there (if any)? Does this show some cosmic design or human need/theory?
Those who married someone who was not a mindmate do you find this frustrating or would you change that if you could go back??? (seemed like the NTs with SJs regretted their choice of partner in the threads)
Anyway in my experience I have come across one (likely INTP) mindmate in the past and it was quite a disappointment to lose. So it has left me more existential than ever and pondering the point of this fleeting connection (as I would want to marry a mindmate after the experience but have no control over it being so)? Also how biologically can this be? Perhaps I should look at psychology instead but I digress... thoughts, opinions, comments and musings welcome.
- NeutralPOV, Formerly HeatherC