all i can really say is that if i were in your shoes, i'd think he was cheating. maybe not physically, but in some form. .. maybe just thinking about it.
It's just as likely that he's not doing anything wrong.
Yikes, Mac. I'm inclined to think more positively about him and go with the thought that he is not doing anything. Maybe it's crossed his mind but that's true for most of us so I'll not crucify him over that. I'd have to be on the next cross over, anyway. LOL
I think, too, that the S-factor plays a big part and out-of-sight, out-of-mind. I'll have to work on the communication, it seems to keep the S in check.
I dunno. My involvement with ISTPs has been pretty intense, and I never felt forgotten. In fact, it was fusion, even when we fought. He'd get disgusted with the idea of other women and anyone hitting on him was met with chilly amusement. Men hitting on me was viewed as confirmation of my quality. Granted, it wasn't appreciated, but he felt he could trust me without question. I've never had anyone else trust me so completely before.
I will say this. I once "crossed up" an ISTP friend. I disagreed with him strongly on something (he was being a jerk and he knew it) and assumed that any sort of disagreement we had would sort itself it out in due course because that's the way I tangle - nothing mortal, for heaven's sake, we're friends after all. I told him how I felt and though it was high octane, I didn't demean him or slag him or anything. He COMPLETELY recoiled from me, like he'd been snake-bitten. It was stunning. I figured out later from others (this happens to me frequently - I'm so daft sometimes) that he was practically in love with me and I thought, "Super. He was really hanging out there and I snapped him."
I say this because certain things - just certain things - really push their buttons, especially if they feel emotionally exposed. Fe is their basement experience. I take Fe for granted.
Well, we are actually in a long-distance relationship and have been married for just over a year (working on immigration to Canada - long story). Anyway, we had a period of time of 2.5 months where we did not talk due to a miscommunication.
I went up to see him last week and we had a great time. However, his communication has been very guarded. Can anyone shed some insight? I feel like he doesn't trust me right now - just so you know, the miscommunication fault was due to both of us.
I'm curious. What is the general dynamic between an ISTP and an ENFP? I ask because my twin is an ENFP and she always got along well with the ISTPs circulating around me, but then again, ENFPs are easy to get along with and very friendly.
Had your appearance significantly altered in any way since the last time he saw you? I'm not trying to make you feel insecure - just wondering.
Well, we are actually in a long-distance relationship and have been married for just over a year (working on immigration to Canada - long story). Anyway, we had a period of time of 2.5 months where we did not talk due to a miscommunication.
I went up to see him last week and we had a great time. However, his communication has been very guarded. Can anyone shed some insight? I feel like he doesn't trust me right now - just so you know, the miscommunication fault was due to both of us.
I'm curious. What is the general dynamic between an ISTP and an ENFP? I ask because my twin is an ENFP and she always got along well with the ISTPs circulating around me, but then again, ENFPs are easy to get along with and very friendly.
Well, we are actually in a long-distance relationship and have been married for just over a year (working on immigration to Canada - long story). Anyway, we had a period of time of 2.5 months where we did not talk due to a miscommunication.
I went up to see him last week and we had a great time. However, his communication has been very guarded. Can anyone shed some insight? I feel like he doesn't trust me right now - just so you know, the miscommunication fault was due to both of us.