ExAstrisSpes
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- ENFJ
We're still together and going strong. We went to Hawaii for New Year's, and generally did a lot of meeting each others' families during the holiday season.
WTF.
Speaking for an entire type now, are we. Charming. Thanks for acting like a jackass to someone who's never gone out of her way to rain on your parade. I finally met someone that I genuinely like a lot who genuinely likes me a lot, and you HAD to stick your 2 cents in. Dick move, and you know it.
Well. How sad for you. Then again, I forgot that you carried down the MBTI from Mount Sinai.
Bite me. And tell Violaine I said hello. Nevermind - I'll tell her myself. No need to keep you in the loop.
Ah, I did not mean to give offense. That is why I crossed it out with the strikethrough formatting.
It occurred to me that the statement I was making only applied to myself. In my experience, they have been bad for me.
Precisely for the type of reasons you exemplify in your post.
My exchanges with ENFJ's tend to match my retarded insensitivity with their sometimes sensitivity and we end up misunderstanding one another.
Again, I apologize, Domino. It was not my intention to speak for any entire type nor to rain on your parade. I was not taking anyone aside from myself into account at all, actually. Simply relating my experiences to date. That ENFJ was the first girl I ever really liked and it really wounded me for a long time at a tender age.
Domino what happens to the people who cut in line in front of you?
...man why can't I get that passionate over someone who isn't just a figment of my imagination? *sighs*
*sighs enviously*My update -- I've been very happily involved with a INTJ for going on 7 months. We connect really well, and my friends can't get over how great we seem together in person. He's awesome.
I smile pleasantly, think to myself what a nice barn they must have been raised in, and then slip their wallets out of their back pockets.
It was a huge surprise to me too. Trust me.
My update -- I've been very happily involved with a INTJ for going on 7 months. We connect really well, and my friends can't get over how great we seem together in person. He's awesome.
My update -- I've been very happily involved with a INTJ for going on 7 months. We connect really well, and my friends can't get over how great we seem together in person. He's awesome.
I would add some if I knew of, there was a deep friendship with an infp that was almost something but alas there is this silent treatment and now its a long lost friendship. she even almost quit smoking and thought of babies. hahaha. how the hell did I manage that one who knows then I said something random other about masturbation and meditation and it went down hill. my flirting skills are awesome, awesome! Unfortunately I saw her patterns and I was part of her patterns and she was part of mine and knew it and probably said stuff subconsciously that would leave her speechless, I tend to be like that.
Delete. Button.
This wasn't about YOU. That's the point. It was about ME and some guy you don't even know.
And since it DID occur to you that you were being obtuse and STILL didn't remove the comment, I really don't know what to make of you now.
No. NO. You don't get to pull out more MBTI body shield crap here. I reacted to you as a PERSON because you were being a jerk. My "type" has ZERO to do with it. Do you have any idea how patronizing you're being?
If you get your hand slapped for being out of line, take it personally. Then maybe you'll stop using "type" as a means to justify your broad comments. MAYBE you were just being a jerk and I stood up for myself. I can't think of a single solitary female friend of mine who wouldn't have done the same.
Again, sorry to hear it. Time to stop applying your pain from one youthful exchange to every aspect of type interaction.
My update -- I've been very happily involved with a INTJ for going on 7 months. We connect really well, and my friends can't get over how great we seem together in person. He's awesome.
I met a girl on the airplane. She was extremely nice, cool and very pretty too. I am not sure what her type would be, but definitely xNFx. She told me about her future plans in a very intuitive way, and she was a little nervous about the future and told me how it made her feel. She likes philosophy, and we spent a lot of time joking about the flying process (no offense to anyone who flies planes professionally or works on one). And just talking to her for two hours, I was positive she was an N and an F of some kind. As far as extrovert or introvert, I honestly could not tell. I might lean towards E, but again, it was super hard to tell. I could not tell if she was a J or P either.
Regardless, I asked her for her phone number and she gave it to me. I am going to call her soon. She is a cool person. I've never done anything like this before but it will be fun, I think.
Such happy news! Isn't it amazing how quickly things can change?
This is how you've reacted to everyone in this thread except me. Think it over.
/done