girlnamedBLESS, what do you daydream about?
I have to admit, I don't buy this notion that Ss don't daydream. Some of them don't, but I think some of them do. I think SFJs probably daydream quite a bit about relationships and interactions. But if you ask an S if they daydream, they might have a negative association with it. So if a mother insists that her son NEVER daydreams, it's more likely she has a negative association with the word. Because why would someone be so sure about something like that? It's like when extroverts constantly tell me that I am really not an introvert, I know that they don't understand the word. It's always EPs who say this.
As far as reading goes, I go through phases. Long periods of time when I'll read only non-fiction (mostly sociology, psychology, self-help, personality typology, opinion books like political books), and then long phases where I'll read only fiction (mostly fantasy, action thriller mysteries, and humorous looks at humanity). It's usually either one or the other, and I'm very discriminating about what I'll read.
My brother has ESFJ preferences. He has great difficulty reading, he says he is too easily distracted. I think he may read one fiction book every few years. Mostly he acquires non-fiction books and takes a long time to read them. But the kind of non-fiction he reads is different from mine. Very practical and concrete, books like "Mastering Stock Options", "How To Win Friends and Influence People" and "Optimal Marketing". Also religious books. He takes all of these books seriously though, underlining and studying them. That's why it takes him so long to finish books and why he feels like he is easily distracted. He doesn't want to fantasize while reading as I like to, he wants to understand and apply exactly what he's reading.
He also doesn't watch TV with the exception of "ER" and "Heroes", and it takes him a while to watch those off DVR. He spends more time cleaning and running errands than anything recreational, something I can't fathom. Work before Play? I say never! But my brother is constantly going to movies and renting movies. He doesn't do TV or books, but he loves movies.