Hi All!
So it has been a long time since i've posted. I could use some advice I have just recently moved from the East Coast to Phoenix and I was wondering if anyone else has been through the same. I moved here with 2 friends who are in a relationship which is weird but I'm getting used to it..both are EN*J's and we do things together I feel I am totally out of the loop because they talk about things that aren't interesting to me so I sit there and don't say much...so I would like to rely less on them...if that makes sense.
I guess my main question is how have you gone about meeting new people and striking up conversations with them to make friends? I have come to find out that this is the hardest thing for me and I really miss the connections with people at home. Oddly enough I enjoy going out to clubs and bars for the experience, music, and stimulation mostly but small talk is really difficult. This is an interesting challenge for me because i've never really had to before I lived in the same state my whole life and have always had the same friends...
Anyways Thanks for the advice and hello again!
So it has been a long time since i've posted. I could use some advice I have just recently moved from the East Coast to Phoenix and I was wondering if anyone else has been through the same. I moved here with 2 friends who are in a relationship which is weird but I'm getting used to it..both are EN*J's and we do things together I feel I am totally out of the loop because they talk about things that aren't interesting to me so I sit there and don't say much...so I would like to rely less on them...if that makes sense.
I guess my main question is how have you gone about meeting new people and striking up conversations with them to make friends? I have come to find out that this is the hardest thing for me and I really miss the connections with people at home. Oddly enough I enjoy going out to clubs and bars for the experience, music, and stimulation mostly but small talk is really difficult. This is an interesting challenge for me because i've never really had to before I lived in the same state my whole life and have always had the same friends...
Anyways Thanks for the advice and hello again!