skylights
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- Joined
- Jul 6, 2010
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- MBTI Type
- INFP
- Enneagram
- 6w7
- Instinctual Variant
- so/sx
well there's not really much to talk about then, is there? you think Fe doms acting like Fe doms are being fake, and you don't agree with any of our explanations for why that's actually genuine behavior on their part. keep your viewpoint, if it pleases you. it's not going to help answer your questions though.
because it benefits them. the creation of external harmony improves their environment.
short answer: because that's what Je functions do.
long answer: because Fe works by using environmental resources to establish the best-functioning system it can based on F-style prioritization. Fe works with others to create a positive interpersonal environment. it's not about being pushy, it's about trying to get everyone on the same (positive) page. it just comes off as pushy when you have other priorities, personally, and they conflict with the priorities the Fe dom is attempting to establish. the same holds true for Te.
every time I see someone with strong Fe I wonder why they are trying to be so nice.
because it benefits them. the creation of external harmony improves their environment.
Furthermore they are always so pushy in promoting their Fe in others.
short answer: because that's what Je functions do.
long answer: because Fe works by using environmental resources to establish the best-functioning system it can based on F-style prioritization. Fe works with others to create a positive interpersonal environment. it's not about being pushy, it's about trying to get everyone on the same (positive) page. it just comes off as pushy when you have other priorities, personally, and they conflict with the priorities the Fe dom is attempting to establish. the same holds true for Te.