forzen
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- Joined
- May 7, 2009
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- MBTI Type
- INTJ
Only felt the urge to be in a relationship twice in my life.
My first round with love (infatuation, whatever...I would have done anything for this chick, good thing she didn't know lol) is a high school crush (who doesn't have those). I only talked to her once and she innitiated the conversation. I was so surprised that I just looked at her and could not say anything....
Round two was probably one of the happiest time of my life even though after I confessed that "I liked her," she told me those dreadful phrase that every guy don't want to hear, "I think its a good idea if we stay as friend." I still enjoyed every moment I spent with her and moved on. There was a brief romantic movie scene moment, but I ended pulling away (kind of looked like I was disgusted....jeez I fail when it counts) because I was so confused on wtf is going (i was 19 here) on because she had said earlier that we were just going to be friend.
The feelings I felt during those time has not returned and those feelings were the fuel that droved me to explore being in a relationship.
So I concluded:
For the average looking male INTJ like myself, with no "game," the prospect of love is undeniably grim.
My first round with love (infatuation, whatever...I would have done anything for this chick, good thing she didn't know lol) is a high school crush (who doesn't have those). I only talked to her once and she innitiated the conversation. I was so surprised that I just looked at her and could not say anything....
Round two was probably one of the happiest time of my life even though after I confessed that "I liked her," she told me those dreadful phrase that every guy don't want to hear, "I think its a good idea if we stay as friend." I still enjoyed every moment I spent with her and moved on. There was a brief romantic movie scene moment, but I ended pulling away (kind of looked like I was disgusted....jeez I fail when it counts) because I was so confused on wtf is going (i was 19 here) on because she had said earlier that we were just going to be friend.
The feelings I felt during those time has not returned and those feelings were the fuel that droved me to explore being in a relationship.
So I concluded:
For the average looking male INTJ like myself, with no "game," the prospect of love is undeniably grim.