SubjectA
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- Jul 17, 2009
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- MBTI Type
- INTJ
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I go to ask him what went wrong in a lesson and he bites my head off. "Well, you're mumbling, your hair's in your face, and you're dropping beats." 27 years of teaching teachers to teach the arts, and he still has almost no emotional intelligence.
I kinda don't see how the first two statements are that important for someone like him to waste his breath on. I'd be disappointed to listen to those type of fluffy feedback unless I'm in a communications course or something.
So have you tried narrowing down the types of improvement you're aiming to hear? (Re: Ask him to give advice that's actually relevant and crucial to the subject. The more specific you are, I hope his answers will be as helpful.)
Yes, I'm quite surprised that an INTJ would say those things, too. INTJ's can be so obsessed with efficiency that they won't waste their breath to say things like that. Unless it's criticism that we believe you can benefit from, we usually don't even bother.