Tilt
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- ENFJ
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- 3w4
- Instinctual Variant
- sx/sp
I have this with people as well. And it sucks ass when you absolutely know a person is bad-news-to-downright-dangerous but likewise know no one will be able to see it until it is too late. Well, it might only suck ass for the insanely protective idk. I am actually curious to know how you handle these things if you don't mind me asking. I'm at the point today where I'm starting off new relationships like this: If I ever tell you to avoid someone for your own well being or safety please, please, please take heed of what I say.
I don't navigate the physical environment all that well though and am also curious to hear of the ENFJ experience with the same if you have a moment...that would be so interesting to me.
I notice something off, then I warn people while making contingency plans in the background. Or I will make a big enough stink to force someone's hand. Sometimes I keep the information to myself and let things play out and find ways to make the fall have a softer landing.
Just warning people over and over usually doesn't do much. When my ENFP sister does that I often it interpret as an overreaction.