I was told by a friend a little while ago that I would be a perfect match for one of her friends. So, I got her E-mail address and sent her a message. After that we started to message each other about once a week. Then I decided to call her and ask her out on a date. We decided to go to a Science Museum. Well last Saturday we went.
At first it was sort of awkward. We could not really get any conversation going, but then I did something stupid(couldn't figure out the elevator) and she could not stop laughing. After that everything flowed perfectly. We were talking about anything and everything. We didn't pay much attention to things at the Museum, just each other. I found it very entertaining on how she didn't always get my humor. For instance there were some small funeral boxes that looked just like coffins. I said man people must have been small back then. She just went on to explain how they were buried and later the bones were dug up and put into them. Then looked back at my big smile and would smile back. We ended up spending about 5 hours there and at the end both told each other that we had a great time and we should do it again sometime.
For me the first date was a blast I was expecting the worst, hopefully she feels the same.
My question is for INTJ women. From here how do I not screw this up? Do you have any tips for the second date? Any other information would be well appreciated. Thanks.
david
At first it was sort of awkward. We could not really get any conversation going, but then I did something stupid(couldn't figure out the elevator) and she could not stop laughing. After that everything flowed perfectly. We were talking about anything and everything. We didn't pay much attention to things at the Museum, just each other. I found it very entertaining on how she didn't always get my humor. For instance there were some small funeral boxes that looked just like coffins. I said man people must have been small back then. She just went on to explain how they were buried and later the bones were dug up and put into them. Then looked back at my big smile and would smile back. We ended up spending about 5 hours there and at the end both told each other that we had a great time and we should do it again sometime.
For me the first date was a blast I was expecting the worst, hopefully she feels the same.
My question is for INTJ women. From here how do I not screw this up? Do you have any tips for the second date? Any other information would be well appreciated. Thanks.
david