cooliogirly1000
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Do INFPs idealise their partners? At first in the initial phase of the relationship, our other half may not fit into our 'perfect' picture. However, do you find that when you do fall for that person, in your eyes, they either become something so magnificent when they are actually not or you push them in order to become your ideal partner.
Do you feel like you are living in a bubble most of the time when you are in a deep relationship, and although you notice the flaws of the other person, you either choose to bury it in or try to fix it? These flaws may not even be that big, or realisticaly acceptable in a normal circumstances, but you just want it perfect or ideal...and you wonder to yourself, am I settling for less? As an INFP I just dont seem to trust my thoughts or feelings. I find when the relationship is over only then can I think clearly and either realise they were not for me or that I messed up and should have appreciated what I had and not pushed for my idealistic relationship.
Do you feel like you are living in a bubble most of the time when you are in a deep relationship, and although you notice the flaws of the other person, you either choose to bury it in or try to fix it? These flaws may not even be that big, or realisticaly acceptable in a normal circumstances, but you just want it perfect or ideal...and you wonder to yourself, am I settling for less? As an INFP I just dont seem to trust my thoughts or feelings. I find when the relationship is over only then can I think clearly and either realise they were not for me or that I messed up and should have appreciated what I had and not pushed for my idealistic relationship.