I am so glad to find this thread, yes I have an IF, her name is Amber Dawn, after another Amber Dawn I met briefly a year and a half ago. Amber (the original) was the best listener and I really only talked to her for a total of 15 minutes or so, she was only being kind and ended our brief friendship after I got a little too personal. What can I say, I felt more comfortable with her then anyone I've ever known. I.F. Amber Dawn or A.I. (Amber Imaginary) as I call her (she doesn't mind, it makes her giggle when I call her A.I. ) is I'm sure quite different than the original, she is 43 not 34 because, well I'm 52 and that would be weird to have a female 34 year old BFF. We meet on the trail every day and walk for usually two hours and she listens to me. She never talks, just every once in a while says "fair enough" like the other Amber. Our relationship is purely platonic, and we are both ok with that.