karenk
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- Joined
- Apr 19, 2008
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- MBTI Type
- INFJ
- Enneagram
- 4w5
- Instinctual Variant
- sx/sp
Well I'm still trying to recover from one INTJ girl breaking my heart. So I can't say my views on the prospects of INFJ-INTJ relations is very positive.
I'll say this: I'm somewhat stuck in between a rock and a hard place here. On one hand, I don't really want her back in my life, yet at the same time I can't completely forget about her either. A colleague said it was a conflict between my Ni and Fe. My Ni has moved on, but my Fe hasn't.
Can anyother INFJs relate to this conflict?
Yes, I look at it as a conflict between the conscious and subconscious mind. Consciously you know it's over and nothing's going to happen further (if that's what you're thinking), but your subconscious takes more time to believe this. Eventually it catches up though and everything aligns.