Grace
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- Aug 13, 2009
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- MBTI Type
- INTJ
I most closely associate myself with an INFJ but I am not 100% certain that this fits me well. So, I was wondering what other people thought. My Te is almost as high as my Fe so maybe I am more INTJ? Not sure. If there is another type I resemble, feel free to express that as well.
Family: I am the youngest in my family. My mom is an ESTJ, my dad is an ENFJ, and my sister is an ENTJ. I am considered the smart, empathetic and moody one of the bunch.
Friends: Being loyal is really important to me so I do my best to keep secrets, not talk behind friends backs, etc. I have about 8 girlfriends who I am close with from highschool or before. I am not bad at making friends, just keeping them after they cease to be convienient. So, at any given time I might have a few friends in certain classes and whatnot but it is unlikely that I will keep that friendship once the class is over. I only hold onto friends who I have an extensive history with. With the friends I do have I often feel like the odd one. They are all SF's and it seems like a lot of times they are interested in things that I am not (boys, clothes, celeberties, etc.).
School: I have always gotten really good grades in school with a medium amount of effort (I complete all of my homework but I don't study for tests much, etc.). I am double majoring in Psychology and Statistics right now. The school setting is where I am most outgoing. If I am put into a group I almost always automatically take charge (mainly out of fear that if someone else does, the job will not get done right).
Boyfriend: He is an ENTP and I know that ENTP's and INFJ's are supposed to go well together to maybe that is one point in the INFJ direction? I like to spend a lot of time with him and I feel really dedicated toward our relationship.
Me: I like to watch movies, television, read books, play chess, ride bikes (not extreme bike riding or anything). I am fairly boring. I need to have things planned or I feel anxious (very little Se). I'm not that neat. I'm fairly critical of things. My friends lovingly tell me I'm a bitch sometimes because of my blunt honesty. I'm really good at seeing different points of view, and while I'm tooting my own horn, I also have pretty high self-esteem. I think people sometimes see me as being snobby or aloof but then I also get that I come off as really sweet and shy? Guess it depends what mood I'm in/how comfortable I am. I dress in what's comfortable. Jeans and t-shirts, minimal makeup, long wavy hair that I don't do much with.
Ideas?
Family: I am the youngest in my family. My mom is an ESTJ, my dad is an ENFJ, and my sister is an ENTJ. I am considered the smart, empathetic and moody one of the bunch.
Friends: Being loyal is really important to me so I do my best to keep secrets, not talk behind friends backs, etc. I have about 8 girlfriends who I am close with from highschool or before. I am not bad at making friends, just keeping them after they cease to be convienient. So, at any given time I might have a few friends in certain classes and whatnot but it is unlikely that I will keep that friendship once the class is over. I only hold onto friends who I have an extensive history with. With the friends I do have I often feel like the odd one. They are all SF's and it seems like a lot of times they are interested in things that I am not (boys, clothes, celeberties, etc.).
School: I have always gotten really good grades in school with a medium amount of effort (I complete all of my homework but I don't study for tests much, etc.). I am double majoring in Psychology and Statistics right now. The school setting is where I am most outgoing. If I am put into a group I almost always automatically take charge (mainly out of fear that if someone else does, the job will not get done right).
Boyfriend: He is an ENTP and I know that ENTP's and INFJ's are supposed to go well together to maybe that is one point in the INFJ direction? I like to spend a lot of time with him and I feel really dedicated toward our relationship.
Me: I like to watch movies, television, read books, play chess, ride bikes (not extreme bike riding or anything). I am fairly boring. I need to have things planned or I feel anxious (very little Se). I'm not that neat. I'm fairly critical of things. My friends lovingly tell me I'm a bitch sometimes because of my blunt honesty. I'm really good at seeing different points of view, and while I'm tooting my own horn, I also have pretty high self-esteem. I think people sometimes see me as being snobby or aloof but then I also get that I come off as really sweet and shy? Guess it depends what mood I'm in/how comfortable I am. I dress in what's comfortable. Jeans and t-shirts, minimal makeup, long wavy hair that I don't do much with.
Ideas?