I am currently dating an INFJ for the last 6 months. Pretty intense individual. We've been pretty intimate ever since the beginning of the relationship, but recently we've been somewhat distant. The other day while we're together she cried right in the middle of sex! Nothing due to the physical nature. When I asked her what was wrong, she looked down and more tears started flowing. Weird thing is, I see two sides to her. One on one, she comes across super sweet and highly emotional (she cries easily). When she hangs around others, I see more of a cold individual. Our communication basically revolves around texting constantly, so its hard to know what is exactly on her mind. An hour after this incident, I get a text message from her stating, "I do love u. And I know all sorts of crazy things r going thru your head. Honestly its nothing u did. Sorry for being a baby." Is this common among INFJs? Is she guilty about something?