hearthem
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- 4w5
My friend is an ENFP, and I'm an INFJ [although sometimes I have traits of an intj]. From what I've read, we're suppose to really get along, both being idealists and all...
She never admits her mistakes, she only laughs them off and tries to shove them onto me. And if she does, she'll act like 'Oh yes, I did that, have a problem?'
She usually doesn't treat me nicely, and if she does say something nice, it's usually perverted and disgusting. But the worst part is that she doesn't understand what's wrong with the way she acts. I try to explain it, but she just doesn't seem to understand what I'm saying...
Why is this such a problem if we're close in types? Sorry for ranting OTL
If it helps, I'm an 4w5 and she's a 6w7.
She never admits her mistakes, she only laughs them off and tries to shove them onto me. And if she does, she'll act like 'Oh yes, I did that, have a problem?'
She usually doesn't treat me nicely, and if she does say something nice, it's usually perverted and disgusting. But the worst part is that she doesn't understand what's wrong with the way she acts. I try to explain it, but she just doesn't seem to understand what I'm saying...
Why is this such a problem if we're close in types? Sorry for ranting OTL
If it helps, I'm an 4w5 and she's a 6w7.
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